After taking initiation from Sant Rampal Ji these rules are must be followed.
Let alone the consumption of hukkah (smoking tobacco through water), alcohol, beer, tobacco, beedi, cigarette, to take snuff, gutkha, meat, egg, sulfa (a wad of tobacco smoked in chilam), opium, cannabis and other intoxicating substances, do not even have to bring any intoxicating substance and give to anyone.
Saint Garibdas Ji Maharaj, calling all these intoxicating substances as bad, states in his sacred speech that -
Surapan madhya masahari, gaman karae bhogaen par naari | Sattar janm katat hain sheeshM, sakshi Sahib hai jagdeeshM ||
Par dwaara stri ka kholae, satar janm andha hovae dolae | Madira peeve kadva paani, sattar janm shwaan ke jaani ||
Garib, hukka hardam pivte, laal milaavaen dhoor | ismein sanshay hai nahin, janm pichhle soor ||1||
Garib, so naari jaari karae, sura paan sau baar | ek chilam hukka bharae, dubae kaali dhaar ||2||
Garib, soor gau kun khaat hai, bhakti bihune raad | bhaang tambaakhu kha gaye, so chaabat hain haad ||3||
Garib, bhang tambaakhu peev heen, sura paan sae het | gaust matti khaay kar, jangli bane pret ||4||
Garib, paan tambaakhu chaab heen, naas naak mein det | so to iraanae gaye, jyun bhadbhooje ka ret ||5||
Garib, bhang tambaakhu peev heen, gost gala kabaab | mor mrig koon bhakhat hain, denge kahaan jawaab ||6||
2. Going to places of Pilgrimage - Prohibited: - Do not
have to keep fast of any kind. Do not have to do any pilgrimage, nor
have to take any bath in Ganga etc, nor have to go to any other
religious place for the sake of bathing or seeing. Do not have to go
in any temple or place of pilgrimage of a favourate deity with the
feeling of devotion or worship thinking that God is in this temple.
God is not an animal whom the priest has tied in the temple. God (is
omnipresent) is present in every particle. All these sadhnas (ways
of worship) are against the scriptures.
Just think a little that all these places of pilgrimage (like,
Jagannaath Temple, Badrinaath, Haridwar, Mecca-Medina,
Amarnaath, Vaishnodevi, Vrindavan, Mathura, Barsana, Ayodhya
Ram Temple, Kashi Dhaam, Chhudani Dhaam etc), temples,
mosques, gurudwaras, churchs and places of pilgrimage of favoured
deities etc are such places where some saint used to live. They after
doing their sadhna(type of worship) there and collecting their wealth of bhakti(way of worship) , left
their bodies and went to the lok of their favoured deity. Thereafter
to preserve the evidence of their presence, someone built a temple
there, some a mosque, someone a gurudwara, someone church or
someone an inn etc, so that their memory remains, and insignificant
people like us keep getting the evidence that we should perform
actions similar to these great souls. All these religious places only
give this message to all of us that just as these famous saints have
done sadhna, so should you. For this, you must search for the saints
who do and tell sadhna in this very way, and then do as they say. But
later people started worshipping these places only, which is absolutely useless and is contrary to the scriptures.
All these places are like such a place where a sweet-maker
built a bhatti (clay-oven), made sweets like laddu, jalebi etc, and
after eating himself and feeding his near and dear ones, went away.
Thereafter neither is there any sweet-maker in that place, nor any
sweet. Only the bhatti is there then. Neither can it teach us how to
make sweets, nor can fill our stomachs. Now, if someone says,
"Come, brother! I will show you that bhatti where a sweet-maker
had made sweets. Let's go." Went there and saw that bhatti, and
also circumambulated it seven times. Did you get the sweet? Did
you find the sweet-maker who teaches the method of preparing
sweets? For this, you will have to find a similar sweet-maker who
first of all feeds you the sweet and then also explains the method of
its preparation. Then only do what he says, nothing else.
Similarly, instead of worshipping the places of pilgrimage, find
the same kind of saints who do and tell bhakti of Supreme God Kabir
according to the scriptures. Then only do as they say. Do not act as
your heart desires.
Samved Mantra no. 1400 Utarchik Adhyay no. 12 Khand no. 3
Shlok no. 5 (Translated by Sant Rampal Das)
Bhadra vastra samanyavasaano mahaan' kavirnivachnani shansan' |
Aavachyasv chamvoH pooymano vichakshano jagrvirdevveetau ||5||
Translation: - Clever people, through their speeches, instead
of guiding the true path of the way of worship of Supreme God (Purna
Brahm), in place of nectar, are respectfully making sip pus (from a
boil or wound) of the worship of others [like, ghost-worship, Pitraworship, carrying out shraadhs, worship of the three gunas (RajgunBrahma, Satgun-Vishnu, Tamgun-Shankar) and worship of BrahmKaal and way of worship upto temple, mosque, gurudwaras, churchs,
places of pilgrimage and keeping fasts]. The supreme-happinessgiving Purna Brahm Great Kabir acquiring another body made up
of masses of light (tejpunj1
) similar to that of Satyalok appears in
body in an ordinary attire (vastra) [The meaning of 'vastra' is 'attire' - in saint language, it is also called 'chola'. Like, if a saint gives
up his body, then it is said that Mahatma has left his chola], and byspending life like a common man and living in the world for a few
days, by describing the true knowledge by means of his hymns-verses,
brings awareness about the hidden actual true knowledge and worship of the Purna Parmatma (Supreme God).
Gita Adhyay no. 16 Shlok no. 23
YaH, shastrvidhim', utsrjya, vartte, kamkaratH, na, saH,
Siddhim', avapnoti, na, sukham', na, paraam', gatim' ||23||
Translation: He who, abandoning the injunctions of the
scriptures, acts according to his whimsical desires, neither attains
siddhi1
, nor supreme state, nor happiness.
Gita Adhyay no. 6 Shlok no. 16
Na, ati, ashrnatH, tu, yogH, asti, na, ch, ekantm',
AnshrnatH, na, ch, ati, swapnsheelasya, jagrtH, na, ev, ch, Arjun ||16||
Translation: Oh Arjun, this bhakti is neither successful of a
person who eats too much, nor of a person who does not eat at all
i.e. keep fasts, nor of a person who sleeps too much, and nor of a
person who always keeps awake.
Poojain deii dhaam ko, sheesh halaavae jo |
Garibdas saachi kahae, had kafir hai so ||
Kabir, ganga kaathae ghar karae, peevae nirmal neer |
mukti nahin hari naam bin, Satguru kahain Kabir ||
Kabir, teerth kar-kar jag mua, udae paani nhaay |
Ram hi naam na japa, Kaal ghasitey jaay ||
Garib, peetal hi ka thaal hai, peetal ka lota |
jad moorat ko poojte, aavaega tota ||
Garib, peetal chamcha poojiye, jo thaal parosae |
jad moorat kis kaam ki, mati raho bharosae ||
Kabir, parvat parvat main firya, karan apne Ram |
Ram sarikhe jan mile, jin saare sab kaam ||
4. Worship of Pitras —Prohibited: - Do not have to do any
type of pooja1
of Pitras, carrying out shraadhs etc. God Shri Krishnahas also clearly forbidden worshipping these Pitras and ghosts.
In
Gita Ji Adhyay 9 Shlok 25, it is said that —
Yanti, devvrtaH, devan', pitrn', yanti, pitrvrtaH,
Bhootani, Yanti, bhootejyaH, yanti, madhyajinH, api, mam' ||25||
Translation: Worshippers of gods go to gods, worshippers of
pitras go to pitras, worshippers of ghosts go to ghosts, and those
devotees who worship in accordance with the scriptures (matanusar)
are benefited by me alone.
Bandichhor Garibdas Ji Maharaj and Kabir Sahib Ji Maharaj
also say-
“Garib, bhoot ramae so bhoot hai, Dev ramae so Dev |
Ram ramae so Ram ahi, suno sakal sur bhev ||”
Therefore, do bhakti of that Parmeshwar (Purna Parmatma/Supreme God), from whom you will attain complete salvation. That
God is Purna Brahm / SatPurush Sat Kabir1
.
Its evidence is also in
Gita Ji Adhyay no 18 Shlok no. 46.
YatH, prvrttibhootanaM yen sarvmidM tatam' |
Swakarmna tambhyachrya siddhiM vindati manavH ||46||
Translation: The God from whom all the living beings have originated and from whom this whole world has pervaded, by worshipping that God through the performance of one's natural activities, a
man attains supreme spiritual success.
Gita Adhyay no. 18 Shlok no. 62
Tamev sharnM gachchh sarvbhaven bharat |
Tatprsadatparam shantiM sthanM prapyasi shashvatam' ||62||
Translation: Oh Descendent of Bharat, Arjun! You, in every
respect, go in the refuge of only that Supreme God. By the grace of
that Supreme God, you will attain supreme peace and will attain the
eternal supreme state.
The meaning of 'in every respect' is to not do any other pooja
and to have faith in only one God by mind-action-speech.
Gita Adhyay no. 7 Shlok no. 15
Na, mam', dushkrtinH, moodaH, prpadhyante, naraadhmaH,
Mayya, aphrtgyanaH, aasurm', bhavm', aashritaH ||15||
Translation: Those whose knowledge has been stolen away by
Maya, such men who have demoniac nature, who are lowest among
men, the evil-doers, fools, do not worship me i.e. they keep doing sadhna
of the three gunas (Rajgun-Brahma, Satgun-Vishnu, Tamgun-Shiv).
Kabir, maai masaani shed sheetla, bhairav bhoot hanumant |
Parmatma unse door hai, jo inko poojant ||
Kabir, sau varsh to guru ki sewa, ek din aan upaasi |
vo apraadhi aatma, parae Kaal ki faansi ||
Guru ko tajae bhajae jo aana | ta pasuva ko fokut gyaana ||
5. Lord Kabir is Sankat Mochan (Liberator from a crisis): - On arrival of any suffering (crisis) as a result of karm1
(deeds),
never have to worship any other deity god or Mata Masaani etc.,
nor have to go to any palmist/astrologer. Only have to worship
Bandichhor2
God Kabir who removes all the miseries, who is the
liberator from crisis.
Samved Mantra no. 822 Utarchik Adhyay 3 Khand no. 5 Shlok
8 (Translated by Sant Rampal Das)
ManeeshibhiH pavte poorvyaH kavirnrbhiyatH pari koshaaM asishyadat' |
Tritasya naam janayamadhu ksharannindrasya vaayuM sakhyay vardhayan' ||
Translation: Primordial i.e. Eternal Supreme God Kabir, by giving instruction of three mantras to a devout soul who loves Him by
heart and does worship with faith, by purifying him, releases him
from birth and death, and fully increases the countable life-breaths,
which have been given to his friend i.e. devotee according to destiny, from His store/treasure. As a result of which, makes him attain
the real happiness of Supreme God by His blessings.
Kabir, Devi Dev thaade bhaye, humko thaur bataau |
jo mujhko poojaen nahin, unko looto khaao ||
Kabir, Kaal jo peesae peesna, jora hai panihaar |
ye do asal majoor hain, Satguru ke darbaar ||
6. Unnecessary charity - Prohibited: - Do not have to give
anything in form of charity anywhere and to anyone. Neither money,
nor unstitched cloth etc, nothing. If someone comes asking for any
charity then feed him and give something to drink like tea, milk,
lassi, water etc, but do not have to give anything else. Who knows
that beggar might misuse that money. For instance, a man hearing a
false story of a beggar, in which he was telling that his children are
suffering without treatment and please give me some money, out of
emotions, gave him Rs 100. Earlier that beggar used to drink 250
ml of alcohol. That day he drank half a bottle of alcohol and beat his
wife. His wife along with his children committed suicide. That charity done by you became the cause of destruction of that family. If
you want to help such a distressed person, then get his children
medication from the doctor; do not give money.
“Kabir, guru bin maala ferte, guru bin dete daan |
Guru bin dono nishfal hain, poochchho ved puraan ||”
7. It is prohibited to eat remnants of food previously tasted
by someone: - Do not have to eat food remnants of such a person
who consumes alcohol, meat, tobacco, egg, beer, opium, cannabis etc.
8. Performance of last-rites after (death) departure to
Satyalok - Prohibited: - If someone dies in the family, then anybody can light the funeral pyre - a family member or someone else,
and should utter Manglacharan while lighting it. Do not have to pick
up anything like ashes etc. If it is compulsory to clean that area,
then picking up those ashes you may yourself immerse them in any
flowing water. Utter the Manglacharan at that time. Neither have
to offer pind etc, nor have to do anything like terahmi, chhHmahi,
barsodi, and shraadhs1
etc. Do not have to get any hawan performed
by any other person. Determine any one day for the relatives or
near and dear ones who come to express their condolences. That
day, do the Nitya Niyam which is done daily, light the lamp, and then
feed everyone. If you want to do any meritorious act on his (deceased person's) name, then after taking permission from your
Gurudev Ji, should keep the Akhand Paath of Bandichhor GaribdasJi Maharaj's sacred speech. If you do not get the permission to do
Paath, then the initiated devotees of the family may light a continuous lamp of desi ghee at home for four or seven days and do jaap of
Brahm Gayatri mantra four times in a day and may offer three or
one time of jaap to the deceased person who has departed to Satlok.
As considered appropriate, they may donate the fruit of upto one,
two, or three jaap of mantras to him/her. You have to continue lighting lamp and doing Aarti, sumiran of naam etc like everyday, bearing this in mind that -
Kabir, saathi hamaare chale gaye, hum bhi chaalan haar |
koye kaagaj mein baaki rah rahi, taate laag rahi vaar ||
Kabir, deh padi to kya hua, jhootha sabhi pateet |
pakshi udya aakaash koon, chalta kar gaya beet ||
9. It is prohibited to do worship against the scriptures
on the birth of a child: - On birth of a child, do not have to celebrate any chhati (sixth day after birth) etc. Because of 'Sutak1
'
the daily worship, bhakti, aarti (prayer), lighting lamp etc have not
to be stopped.
In this context, let me tell you a short story. A person got a child
after ten years of his marriage. In the happiness of having a son he
celebrated a lot. Invited twenty - twety-five villages for food and
there was a lot of singing and dancing. In other words, he spent a lot
of money. Then after a year that son passed away. Then that same
family cried like hell, and blamed their misfortune.
Therefore God
Kabir tells us that -
Kabir, beta jaaya khushi hui, bahut bajaaye thaal |aana jaana lag raha, jyon keedi ka naal ||
Kabir, patjhad aavat dekh kar, ban rovae man maahi |
oonchi daali paat the, ab peele ho ho jaahin ||
Kabir, paat jhadanta yoon kahae, sun bhai taruvar raay |
ab ke bichhude nahin mila, na jaane kahaan girenge jaay ||
Kabir, taruvar kehta paat se, suno paat ik baat |
yahaan ki yaahe reeti hai, ek aavat ek jaat ||
10. Going to place of pilgrimage of a favoured deity to
get child's head tonsured - Prohibited: - Do not have to go to
any place of pilgrimage for getting the child's head shaved off. When
you see that the hair have grown, get them cut and throw them away.
Saw in a temple that reverential devotees came to get their son's or
daughter's head shaven off. The barber over there asked for three
times more money than outside, and cutting a scissor full of hair
gave them to the parents. They offered them with faith in the temple.
The priest put them in a bag. At night, he threw them away in a
distant solitary place. All this is just a drama. Why not get head
shaven off in a normal manner as before and dispose them outside.
God becomes pleased with naam, not by hypocrisy.
11. Happiness from initiation: - Naam (updesh/initiation)
should not be taken only with a viewpoint to remove sorrows, rather
should be taken for self-welfare. Then with sumiran1
all the joys
come automatically.
“Kabir, sumiran se sukh hot hai, sumiran se duHkh jaay |
Kahaen Kabir sumiran kiye, Saain maahin samaay ||”
12. Adultery is prohibited: - Should look upon other women
as mother - daughter - sister. Adultery is a heinous sin.
Like -
“Garib, par dwaara stri ka kholae |
sattar janm andha ho dolae ||”
Surapaan Madhya maasahaari |
gavan karein bhogain par naari ||
Sattar janm katat hain sheeshaM |
saakshi Sahib hai jagdeeshaM ||
Par naari na parsiyo, mano vachan humaar |
Bhavan chaturdash taas sir, triloki ka bhaar ||
"Par naari na parsiyo, suno shabd saltant |
Dharmrai ke khambh se, ardhmukhi latkant ||
13. To criticize and hear criticism is prohibited: - Do not
criticize your Guru1
even by mistake, nor hear it. To hear means if
someone says false things about your Guru Ji, then you do not have
to fight, rather should think that he is speaking without thinking i.e.
is telling a lie.
Guru ki ninda sunae jo kaana | taako nishchay narak nidaana ||
Apne mukh ninda jo karheen |shukar shwaan garbh mein parheen ||
Do not have to criticize anyone, and do not even have to listen
to it. Even if it is about a common man. God Kabir states that -
“Tinka kabahu na nindiye, jo paanv tale ho |
Kabahu uth aakhin pade, peer ghaneri ho ||
14. Gambling - Prohibited: - One should never gamble or play
cards.
Kabir, maans bhakhae aur mad piye, dhan vaishya so khaay |
Jua kheli chori karae, ant samoola jaay ||
15. Singing and Dancing - Prohibited: -It is against the belief of devotion to dance and sing vulgar songs on any kind of happy
occasion. Like, once a widow sister had gone to a relative's house
on some happy occasion. All were dancing and singing with joy, but
that sister was sitting in a corner and was engrossed in the thoughts
of God. Then her relatives asked her that why are you sitting so
disappointed? You may also dance and sing like us and make merry.
On this that sister said that what should I celebrate for? I had only
one son and he has also passed away. Now what happiness is there
for me? Similar is the state of every person in this lok of Kaal.
Here,
there is a speech of Guru Nanak Dev Ji that -
Na jaane Kaal ki kar daarae, kis vidhi dhal paasa ve |
Jinhaade sir te maut khudagdi, unhaanu keda haansa ve ||
Saadh milein saadi shaadi (khushi) hondi, bichhad da dil giri (duHkh) ve |
Akhde Nanak suno jihaana, mushkil haal fakiri ve ||
God Kabir Ji also says that —
Kabir, jhoothe sukh ko sukh kahae, maan raha man mod |
Sakal chabina Kaal ka, kuchh mukh mein kuchh gaud ||
Kabir, beta jaaya khushi hui, bahut bajaaye thaal |
Aavan jaana lag raha, jyon keedi ka naal ||
Important: Women and men both have the right to attain God.
Women even during their monthly periods (menses) should not stop
their daily worship and lighting lamp etc. Nor have to stop the daily
worship on anyone's death or birth.
Note: A devotee who will not follow these twenty-one formulated orders, his naam (mantra) will finish. If someone commits any
mistake unknowingly, it is forgiven, and if has knowingly committed
it, then that devotee becomes devoid of naam. Its only solution is
that, ask for forgiveness from Gurudev Ji and again receive naamupdesh (initiation)
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